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George, This finding [Study Debunks Theory On Teen Sex, Delinquency] does not surprise me at all, only highlights the hetereogeneity of teens, and there are so many variables as stated in the article. I am so tired of sex-education phobic folks lumping teen sex into one evil box. There are many sexually active teens in relationships that are healthier than many adult relationships. They have communicated clearly with one another and are using precautions to avoid pregnancies and STIs. There are also kids who take lots of risks, including early and ill-prepared for sexual activity. Two things to consider: the earlier one starts to have sex, generally the higher the number of partners and increased risk for STIs, but not for every person who had sex early. The other point is a line of qualitative research I have been following for years; Debra Tolman and Sharon Lamb, I believe, who examine what is called sexual assertiveness in women. In order to be sexually assertive and avoid negative physical and emotional consequences, a woman must acknowledge her own sexual desire so that she can clearly say "yes" or "no." This can be much harder for adolescent women who are more likely to report after their first sexual experience... "Oh, it just happened." Since our culture does not permit us to talk candidly and positively about adolescent sexual desire, it is harder to hone those sexual assertiveness skills. I LOVE my work. It is so damned interesting. I also love your interest in this. We need folks to be more interested. Onward, Mary A. Sullivan, M.Ed. (Electronic mail, November 15, 2007) U.Va. Teen Health Center
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